Wednesday, December 24, 2008

FAITH AND SEXUALITY

Faith and sexuality are hand in glove concepts of life

I MUST congratulate writer Nazma Muller, d.d 23/12/08, for taking up such a challenging topic as religion and porn.

What I would like to point out is faith and sexuality are hand in glove concepts of life; it's religion that makes it look alien and taboo. Just as soul mates don't just happen - they're wired to evolve into a feeling of intimacy and connection, so too the public must be educated that commercial sex is not the same as a love based relationship. I hate when people lash out that Caribbean men aren't romantic; couldn't all that sand and sea do something?

If you just look at the Prophets they were in fertile unions, note the S, hence not against sexuality and unabashedly they spoke of it openly in their sermons - the Scriptures bear testimony to this faithful tenet, referring to it as a blessing without any reproduction strings attached.

So having workshops on sexuality and youths is a prime priority that faith leaders must concern themselves with, not only for the younger congregation but all devotees - enough of the rights and wrongs and dos and don'ts and time to listen what challenges our faith professed flock are irking about; drawn into a new mystically erotic era beyond their grannies' fantasies.
Maybe with a more satisfied sexual encounter, where both respect and pleasure remix like parang and hip hop aloud, our congregations will grow and faith will become more apparent like your sunshine island, who knows?

Please also remember Bill Cosby's cynical comment, it works: “Sex education may be a good idea in the schools, but I don't believe the kids should be given homework”

One Love!
HABEEB ALLI

Monday, December 15, 2008

MERRY CHRISTMAS- MY DAYS!

I grew up on the precious memories of a warm rainy Christmas in Guyana where mommy's cooking of pepperpot and baking of back cake and friends partying all night Christmas Eve sticks to my happy face like a Santa tattoo! In those days my going to Sunday school and being left with my black catholic neighbors was no mere prank-although it was sheer fun- maybe it was for exposure to interfaith in a more experienced way than a philosophy- I still rememeber the music chair at the kids chirstmas party and yes we made our own masqurade bands going aroung the hood receiving money and plenty sweet mouth to eat!

Jesus I learnt later was really the baby whose birth day is being celebrated and leven ater that Muslims believe in Esa the son of Virgin Mary with deep love and respect. I wish we could make the world understand that Jesus is not the source of hatred and religion is not the source of violence- if we could only celebrate again- this world will be better! Oh how those days were filled with family and friends- sharing and enjoying!

That's why I have decided since last year to donate our EidulAzha meat donations to the Yonge Street mission, Toronto, since I saw the face of a needy man being advertised in the newspaper by the mission seeking a Christmas gift for the needy. Merry Christmas! oh I was at my kids school concert and they mushed all the hoildays of December into a holiday of lights concert- man what hapnedd to good old christmas concert? Is this PC tinge going too far?!

Happy Holidays

dont beat kids!

I think beating children is haram and for learning Quran it's even more dumb- I think I maybe far from being a Qari because the trauma of entering tajweed clases still resonate withing my psyche- I saw boys tied and beaten and I was sickened so I tried hard to move out of that 'boot camp' only to feel further fear- until my freedom escape to Deoband! Gosh I remember those of daily phobia- was it to revere or was it to simply be scared to death?! Anyways people say don't air your dirty laundry but these ustads don't learn- after many workshops and meeting with the Toronto Police these metropolitan villagers are still murghing and pitaing our future sons and daughters of Islam- Ibn Taimiya has compiled 12 ahadith in his tarbiyatulawlad about how forbiden this practise is yet some asaatiza would say beating is barkat for learning- how much more dumb and khurafati can it get?

As a trustee of a Darulullom I have been able to ban beating and its like to any student but from time to time some teachers get mad and slap the kids- so we have done disciplinary alternative workshops- some things work like tellling the parents and some don't like writing lines and making extra nawafil or punishing the whole class! So for academic education the system spends millions studying child psychology but for divine education we depend upon the stick although it's absolutely non sunnah- it's domestic violence at its best rather those who say the hadith says beat the kids when they are 10 to pray are far from any fiqh of hadith- how can brutalisation and opening the doors of of making our children hate Islam be anything close to this insightful naseha. DARB also means pampering with love- I know one hafiz would get chocolates and money for doing his saback not a mouthful of venom and fistful of head bangs!

It's time madressaS sign a convention in the r locality that all madressas- at home or at mosque or wherever that beating will not be allowed, police check is a must for teachers and twice a year workshops are mandatory before renewal of contract-and parents must also sign unto this. Islamically we know that when thing sget out of hand then a zero tolerance policy is perfectly acceptable- like cutting down the tree of Ridwan by Umar bin Kattab. Also children must never be taught to hide this absue and not call 911 as this is purely miseducation- if their house is on fire or someone is dying or even they were being bullyied by another shouldn't they call 911?

Once I was at a UN forum on child absue and the reality of our madressas' homos suddenly dawned- experts are saying that beating a kid especially benching may lead to homosexual tendencies! Well we know for sure girls sexuallly abused at young age can become hoplessly promiscuous. Love, patience, objective structuring of the course and being an inspiration makes a good teacher and a hence a great student- it can be but do we want to let it happen? Some teachers have been charged for this crime and it's good to let others know of such a painful consequence.

Children are precious gifts: we make them but we don't make their minds!

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Muslims convened in Winnipeg on social services

Muslims convened in Winnipeg on social services


Jumping out of your beach pants and sandals these days happens with a deep sigh but when it’s flying from Toronto to Winnipeg it feels as if you just left Barbados! Well not when it’s for the good of the thousands of Muslims fixed in endless social problems. The Islamic Social Services Association, Inc-Canada hosted a conference to deliberate, train and network with others in this field and it was indeed a resounding success.

Among the organizers and speakers was the famous Shahina Siddiqui, who founded this organization some ten years ago, with chapters in USA and UK. She believes this is the greatest need of the hour and Muslims can only solve their social woes if they combine the insight available in mainstream social agencies with the Islamic perspective. Well this type of fusion was surely in abundance this weekend- Nov 21st-24th 2008 at the Hilton Suites.

Dr. Aneesah Nadir from USA, inspired us with the story of a revert, after 30 years, struggling in the mill of acceptance. Moreso her position on premarital advisement is if you can’t figure it before marriage then you would hardly after- so Imams shouldn’t do the ceremony without couples first sitting for at least 6 sessions of advisement.

Salma Abugeideiri did a wonderful job of presenting issues on domestic violence within the Islamic framework of Quran and Sunna and coupled with her years of experience. This problem, no matter how much the community may be in denial, will not go away by wishful thoughts and few Khutba- it’s time to make it a national disaster as thousands of Muslims are victims, men and women, and the social workers are just a handful. She believes that help should not be at the battered stage but prevention education must start in school.

Attendees came from as far as Texas, Imam Yaseen Shaikh; Calgary in the West and of course Toronto from the East. The Canadian Council of Imams was represented by its secretary Habeeb Alli and the Canadian Council of Muslim Theologians by its executive member Hafiz Faizan. Another group represented there was 1866-NASEEHA - the toll free Muslim Youth Helpline that serves North American callers. Additionally, there was representation from the Jaffari Centre - who is doing an outstanding job with their fulltime staffed community support services. Others included Sister Noha, Sister Kameleh, Ommar, and Sayed Ali Adeli.

Among the other topics discussed were addictions, mental health, sexual problems, marriage and divorce, leadership, youths and gangterism, children welfare and new immigrant counseling, depression, gambling, etc.

This is an ongoing training organization and anywhere this is needed the personnel are willing to attend, organize, and consult.

One attendee stated: It prompted me to explore my options as to taking up marriage and family therapy, as it would help me as an Imam.

Some useful websites: issaservices.com, peacefulfamuilies.org, faithandmedia.org, newdirections.mb.ca, myselfhelp.com, www.getgamblingfacts.ca, canadiancouncilofiamms.com, www.naseeha.net, http://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome
I would like to express our deepest shock and disgust at the Bombings and taking of hostages in Mumbai, India. We the members of religious leadership of Canadian Muslims, strongly condemn these terrorist acts, resulting in loss of many innocent lives and injuring hundreds others.

Canadian Muslims join the international community in grieving this tragedy and strongly condemn these cowardly acts. We hope that the perpetrators of such heinous acts are quickly brought to justice.

Acts like these are an awful exercise of rationalization and must be condemned unequivocally.

poem on Abraham's love

Abraham to God: Je souviens!
But have we forgotten?

So thus the fear
Every heart trembles at
Whose love will survive
the tsunamis of hurt?

In relinquishing a part of us
The trauma
Erases even the sunshine
Off the summer face

Did Abraham love God and no other?
Was the passion for a son, his only
plus belonging to Hagar
Burnt him like a candle in his Lord’s displeasure?

In trying to loose Ishamel
He was to prove his love was divine and unconditional
And it belongs elsewhere
And never these two mortals

But the Absolute knows it
and so today we relinquish
Only a few kilos of lamb, a donation, maybe online
Calling it the souvenir of Father Abraham.

Yours too
I’m sure is a story
Of where you loved and share
And your anxiety is never be the sacrificial lamb!

Willingness is such
That in being prepared to sacrifice
But fearful of the loss
God will grant both loves, on His behalf!


Habeeb Alli

Thursday, November 13, 2008

What is Qurbani? and EidulAzha?

Qurbani is the annual sacrifice performed by Muslims in commemoration of Abraham's intention to offer God his only son, Ishmael. Such ultimate dedication was accepted by God through a dream in the form of a lamb. Abraham instead sacrificed lambs and distributed the meat as per his norm of being charitable. Later on, this tradition took roots in Mecca, the city of his making.

Today, in keeping with Islam's origin to Abrahamic Culture, - pilgrimage, circumcision and a host of other religious acts, Muslims who can afford this donation are obligated to. For the most part the price of a sheep or a goat or even 1/7 of a cow is paid and the meat distributed to the poor and needy.

While many are not privileged to have the time and access to actually perform the slaughter, especially in modern societies, many bona fide charitable organizations will accept the amount and have the act performed in some underprivileged place in the world. The price is about CDN 230.00 for a sheep and the meat can be consumed by oneself, by friends and neighbors, albeit the destitute deservingly are mostly the recipients.

The prayer at the time of the sacrifice remains one as in making any domesticated animal halal for consumption-blessing the meat by mentioning God's name (Bismillah), the source of life and the prayer for acceptance finalizes the act- Oh Allah accept from us as you did from Abraham! The intention of the devotee is considered made at the time of paying the amount and hence there is no need for publication of names and lengthy litanies, however, the mention of it doesn't invalidate the act.

Finally this is not a senseless ritualistic ruin of animals but rather an act of charity that has deeper roots into an historical act, done by a Prophet shared by world religions, of great self sacrifice. Today he remains an emblem of unity and icon for alleviation of poverty through this pro bono act of religious charity. Muslims should therefore think of those daily food banks when planning their Qurbani as this meat is good for all humanity.

EidulAzha is the festival when this act is performed, mostly three days, commencing just after the performance of the pilgrimage to Mecca. The Hijra calendar marks it as 10th of ZilHijja and this year it may fall on Tuesday, December 9th, as per calculated predictions.

Be what day it is, this time of Eid doesn’t usually get the same fanfare like the Eid of Feast. But shouldn't Eid be festive and filled with jubilation? After all this is also thanksgiving for having Ishmael's life saved and God making it easy that purchasing a simple goat is enough to display rather fulfill the need for divine approval in the devotee-God circle of love.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Obama’s victory

Obama’s victory

And how can one not be romantic about President Obama's win? I cried tears of joy and poured prayers of gratitude and protection, that while many have sought him with demeaning names, his conviction for change was marvelously answered- like the Secret magic or rather the Moses rising out of the wicker basket in the drowning ocean of two centuries of slavery. But definitely the divine intervention to have a Muslim-sounding-name American of black ancestry to sit in the White House, while many pundits of doom scattered our horizons with otherwise disdain, is democratically reassuring. Will the Third World and the Muslim lands kindly stand with renewed vigor and peaceful discipline in their electoral challenges?

While racism has not ended, it has sure made an opening for exit. Yes, the many times Muslims felt alienated only to be brought back into the circle of love by no lesser a person like Collin Powel speaks volumes that an inclusive process is the sure strategy of a successful democracy. May this inspire the rest of the world where the price of the same is the costly price of lives and dignity! The Prophet of Medina established the precedents of having the will of the people decide when he signed the treaty among the religious groups of that city and when he ruled by shura or collective consultation. Once more the tears of my reflection gathered momentum upon the sight of 104 years old African woman saying she couldn't have exercised her right being a woman and a person of different color.
My heart throbbed grievously that Brother Malcolm seem oblivious as the remarks of others triumphed in credit. But this was his dream- a vision where colour was absent but ideas flourished, where class vanished but character reigned and where the superficial clout of wealth and power disintegrates while faith and trust fly high. Inspired he was from Muhammad, the great world leader, who made not only persons of different country and color one of his own but he made it forbidden to insult anyone of such- there is no black or white and no Arab and non Arab but yes there will always be respect for piety and good works.

So at a time when the world wants the end of violence, when Muslims are tired answering about their religion's peaceful stand in the jury box of opinions and when jobs are loss to mega bucks protection, this is the time to not only hope for change but collectively work to make that inspiration not become thin flurries on the plains of life sunny challenges. Now we are not onto a destination so much as we are on a journey.
Abu Bakr, the first Caliph, rightly said in his acceptance speech some 1400 years ago, preserved until today without the help of you tube, fellow citizens correct me if I err as that would be dearer that following me in error. I am hopeful when I heard our brother Barack said he will listen more to the disagreeing opinions- yes it's time we do not only listen but hear- for something divine may come out of our global poverty of virtue and absence of environmental well being.
Dale Carnegie said it mostly aptly: Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.
Q 13:11 says: Verily never will God change the condition of a people until they change it themselves. Congrats to him and all his supporters and thank you for your time- may this world be a better place.

Friday, October 10, 2008

ThanksGiving for real!

So Thanksgiving is about that
Among the endless list of divine gifts
To register deep within what Canada has done for you
The gratitiude of finding heaven right here on earth!

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Interfaith at UFT

Interfaith at UFT

If you haven’t met Fr. Terry Gallagher you have missed almost half of your life of warmth and true respect for Islam from a practicing Christian. This Ramadan he hosted the youth council at UFT Multi Faith Centre, Toronto. This was in collaboration with the Scarborro Missions. Earlier this summer one of their outstanding reverends, David Warren spoke at dinner with Dr Munir El Kassem on poverty and what Jesus would have done about it at NAMF.

While the Muslim presence was near absent the UFT conference, read Ramadan blues and not being on a school day, the discussions centered around how youths can make a difference through their spirituality and social activism. What is respect; love and spirituality were among the topics discussed.

Over and over again we are told about the importance of joining hands in combating social problems. We are invited repeatedly to lend support on interfaith initiatives. But how many times we ourselves are the organizers of such events? Before Ramadan a debate was organized at North America Muslim foundation convention hall where Jonathan Kay front the National Post and Dr David Liepert from Calgary challenged each other on freedom of speech versus freedom of religion. The audience was definitely a mixture of religious backgrounds. The session ended respectfully with lots of Q/A thanks to the Faith of Life network support. More of these sessions are definitely needed. As a matter of fact a session of elections and what it will do for Muslims in Canada is much needed.

Ramadan’s Ranting: Reflections around September 2008

Ramadan’s Ranting: Reflections around September 2008

Allow me to greet our world of good citizens and spiritual revelers a special Ramadan happiness. As we watch the world, again, unravel their layers of spiritual energy, I just want to reflect on some lessons. With Obamania bouncing around us it behooves the spirit to really take this quick teaspoon of "hope-filling" medicine. After 9/11 the world definitely hasn't been the same. And with all the despair, wars, disasters, racism, economic woes and everything else that spells doom encircle us, a thrust for hope and faith make the best appeal. Ramadan gives us too that hope after a year long, and for some, more, of wallowing in sins, despairing of God's mercy and forgiveness. Can we see ourselves rejoicing in the same spirit though? Also the passing way of two important figures in the religious world recently in the West tells me that good and progressive scholars are so valuable; I still think the zealots and narrow-minded leaders can't get the same value, regardless of how much they shout. Imam WarithDeen from the States shouldered the legacy of the Nation Of Islam from his father Elija Muhammed with an astute scholarship and dedicated and wise endurance that he changed the landscape of America from a black racist movement into a mainstream all embracing social order. He will be missed.

Moulana Shafee Akalwaya from Trinidad died in Tortula after a heart attack and will be remembered for his tireless years around the Latin America and the Caribbean. He brought joy and rejuvenation to the millions he touched throughout his long years here. He has left those smiles still behind. And so too will your soul receive grace as you prepare in this sojourn all the good things Ramadan and otherwise bring with it.

Fortunate for us in Canada we do enjoy a plethora of Scholars locally who are quite erudite and also visits of special experts from overseas. One such eminent teacher is ShaikhulHadith at DarulUloom Deoband, India, Mufti Saeed Planpuri, who was, as usual, was quite inspiring and deeply relevant. Lastly Open Air Iftar at the Nathan Philips Square, Toronto recently taught us, and proudly so, that respect for religion is ingrained in our genes. We gave a day for our religious community and enjoyed each other's presentations and food, while making the world feel warmer and safer. This is the second year the TARIC Mosque is putting on this free public spirited event where all are welcome.

So with lots of new places bouncing back and Taraweeh buzzing the air, including some young local Hafiz the prospect of a spiritual growth in Toronto is quite promising. Yes our mosques projects are still demanding, in total, for all the unfinished work, almost 23M. Generosity is one thing and knowing this is Allah’s house and He will take care of it is another.

Yes, our prayers have been answered. Safe and happy is what life should be. After Ramadan is Eid- the time to rejoice at the harvest of good deeds and self sacrifice. Well with the loads of Eid dinner in the planning, and rightly so, we will still relish the taste of samosas and biryani but savored with the self edification that it’s after a day’s hunger, rather a month of hard work. May it be good and easy and may the starving ones and helpless ones never be deprived from our charity and love.

Monday, September 1, 2008

Ramadan Message

Respected Muslim

Assalam U Alaikum

Ramadan Greetings!

The guest has arrived. Long awaited; filed with vigor, she has piled us with divine goodies.

We are indeed grateful for this wonderful opportunity, presented to us yearly, without elaborate travel arrangements. Should her profound value to offer change be overlooked? Should her tax free and timely returns be dismissed lightly?

Ramadan has never been a burdensome season for the Early Muslims, despite the paucity of funds, lack of resources and the regular devastations. Therefore for us in this century of progress and abundance, this guest must not be allowed to come and go without fanfare. Let steep materialism not make us oblivious of Allah’s special gifts. We complain too much and thank way less for our countless gifts. An average Canadian has 200 extra unnecessary item stored somewhere, that they can easily convert someone’s misery into bliss. The wastage of food is epidemic. The indifference towards the needy, especially at home and grossly abroad, has become second nature. This should be the sin we’re praying forgiveness for every chance we get this year.

Ramadan makes us realize that change begins with us. We must be that machine to turn the wheels of lethargy and make the power of Iman work miracles. Allah says it’s not enough to wish away poverty and fantasize happiness- we must make it our mandate to make the world a better place by practical steps. Verily never will Allah change the condition of a people until they change it themselves (with their own souls). Q13:11

Zakah, Iftar, fasting, Taraweeh, Itkaf, Umra, visiting mosques and relatives, attending fundraisers and listening to different Hafiz and Ulama, all provide this much needed need tool of change in a world that socially contracts itself away from virtue and Godliness.

The Prophet said: He who provides for the breaking of the fast of another person earns the same merit as the one who was observing fast without diminishing in any way the reward of the latter (Tirmidhi).

Let’s recognize what our centre provides for our salvation, not only today but throughout the year. Think of the level of commitment it takes, and even though we may not get it perfect, it’s still better to fail in doing it right than not doing it at all. Your prayers and opinions are most welcome as much as you during the Blessed Month.

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Spice up your sex life- it's all halal!

http://www.ctv.ca/servlet/ArticleNews/story/CTVNews/20061203/islamic_sex_061203?s_name=&no_ads

Need to have more programs on this topic- I have done some of this kind of a workshop - and there is a demand for it- my website on allexperts.com has some of these too. Chemistry between two people happens on different levels and marriage doesn't guarantee all of those always.

Hence the need to connect with each other away from some of the roadblocks of intimacy- kids, non dressing up for each other, lack of travel together, lack of not doing community work or adventurous chores together, endless exposure to others, the syndrome of comparisson, etc. suggested ways of help- a counsellor will also suggest much these and the Sharia covers lots of ground under mubah foreplay:

Seek a getaway

Purchase lingerie's for her- give hints

Have candlelight dinners- soft music in the backgroun- if you're into that

Enjoy sexual conversations and jokes in privacy

Open communication- search where are each others erogenous spots

Look for each other turn-offs and turn-ons

Ensure the sex is spontaneous sometimes

The man must smell good, dress up and foreplay the wife more than just a slam down event!

The wife must seek creative ways of massaging, kama sutra or perfume garden helps in this lots!

Sexual exploration is an open field- I mean a huge open field except maybe anal sex for some Ulama- so never stop surprising each other!

Books and other media exposure helpsor even discussion groups as removing inhibitions is a educational process that needs cooperation from society.

Lots of taboo on sex has to be cleared by the Ulama-endless stuff in peopels minds that parents and others said is haraam or bad but its not!

2:223 Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.

Tilth represents the preparation of one's garden and in this case the foreplay and even the afterplay and romance that comes with sexual territory. Time and patience are crucial to making sex appealing and creative.

The Prophet hated when men would jump like beasts on their wives and he warned if you donot dress for each other and look attactive then adultery will be your lot.

Looking at each other naked, oral sex and romantic spa moments all fall within the mubah and allowed grounds of preparing the tilth- so never stop oh gardeners of love!

Do you know Aisha, may Allah be pelased with her, bathed with her husband, on whom be peace, in the same bathtub and she would recite love poetry for him and he would for her? Do you know she would run races with him and kiss him each time he leaves home?

Enjoy!

Tragic demise of Akbar is al ost to all Guyanese and humanity.

Allow me to share my deepest sympathies to the families and friends of the late Akbar Alli of Logwood. This tragic ending of a young husband and cold blooded ruin of a father of two young souls, resonates a terrible pain that sits undigested in the souls of thousands, who know him and who don't. I am far way from home but can still see that smile on Akbar's face.

Having known him for almost fifteen years, as he moved from Bush Lot to study Islam at Zeeburg, he temporarily stayed in Enmore by his aunt along with his friend. He later married and lived in Logwood. Having run a trucking service for years, transporting sugar workers and recently selling scrap metal, Akbar has always proven to be that ambitious hard working young Guyanese, who will stay and make the best of any halal venture. He's such a loving person that anyone can get help from him and no matter how much you may anger him or be preachy he would respond with a sweet smile of gentlemanness. While he did not build the nearby mosque in Logwood, he definitely contributed immensely to its present form and substance. Akbar you will surely be missed. And his closest friends were not only Indo Guyanese- visit his mosque or his home-service and you'll see.

Snuffing out his life is indeed senseless and animalistic. While the family mourns and many try to awaken from this life-altering shock, we are left with more questions than answers. Yes, as Muslims we say it's his time. We find solace in the fact that death is pre-calculated and everyone has to leave on his appointed time. Yet the heart will not accept easily, in the thick of grievance, the tragic death of a son of Guyana, who has always lived with love and peace, being charitable and managing his business the best way possible. Imagine the terrible sadness his kids will grow with? Of course, we pray they all receive closure soon. What about his lovely wife who stood by his side, in good and bad, being the perfect choice of his love? She witnessed it. The money was taken, so why shoot him? Handing these mindless robbers the money is the right thing to do rather than life, but that too seems not to work.



The irony of this happening at the vicinity of protection and him expiring at the threshold of life-saving adds to the mental turmoil. Will better security of transporting large sums of money be implemented, scrutiny of elements at financial stores and easier access for businessmen to be licensed be looked into? This lost has indeed united the communities, as people of varying religious organisations rally to engage in Akbar's funeral. But will pressure be put, with that united voice, on protesting the further decay of security and respect of life? How many have to die before the excuse of deportees and limited resources will be thrown out? I have to mourn, as much as I have to seek grace when I think of these murderous loose canons. Just as Muhammad forgave the marauding Quraish or Jesus let go of the Pharisees, I'm sure Akbar's place in Heaven will make him let go vengeful hate , that seems to serenade every conversation. However, this does not mean justice and security will have to be compromised and the pains of this grieving family have to be balm with the downpours of oblivion.

The present drama out of Toronto called Sweet Karaila jettisons us into the deeper knowledge of what happens when callous individuals seek quick gratification without respect for anyone - not even family and life. It also reminds us that the myth of racism is as week as Eldorado and its seeking. Hope Guyanese gets to see it when it comes to Carifesta and take heed- that crime has no colours. Yet how much condemnation have we received, how many are working to heal, and who is willing to educate our people that crime doesn't pay.

May the families find patience and the deceased rest in peace. May the police be guided sooner and grace storm our nation. Last year another brother was gunned in Corentyne trying to save his son from robbers. Today he's semi paralysed and the community seems to move on, forgetting these victims are our our own sons of a magnificent contribution. But who cares? To Sister Romeena, Hajji Hyder's grand daughter and Akbar's wife: love is powerful and your life with him was well worth every drop of it. Once there is life there is hope. The Quran says in 5:32 "On that account: We ordained for the Children of Israel that if any one slew a person - unless it be for murder or for spreading mischief in the land - it would be as if he slew the whole people: and if any one saved a life, it would be as if he saved the life of the whole people. "

Saturday, July 19, 2008

Love so powerful

Amazing Grace in the twinning of Firaz and Candy


Good things come to those who wait
And so it is Firaz and Candy’s date

A journey of two hearts
Tickled and giggled, a twin of life-smarts


Love birds of an intriguing nature
The canje pheasant weds the humming bird, so pure

While nightingales serenade gracious guests
From Vancouver flutters lovely canaries in their nests

Off and On
Whether the compatibility

Lower the bar goes the song
And love will climb over quickly

Like your loved ones’ success
Like your Prophet’s love so numerous

Criticize, challenge but do protect
And every sunrise will be like today, so perfect

Candy, the epitome of modesty
Firaz, the pinnacle of care and self dignity

In twinning each other’s quality
Alas, a marriage of longevity.
Oh Allah, Ameen!

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

News of Muslims Events in Toronto for June 2008

IMO celebrates its 10th anniversary with great pomp and inclusiveness.

After ten years on the ground, the famous Masjid and banquet hall, International Muslim Organization, IMO recently held its anniversary. While some would think this should have been a free program where all can come, the majority seem to agree that it’s time our Masjid gets the rightful honor with a pomp and camaraderie like any of the gala diners organizations put on.

In attendance, among notable others, were great leaders of the community, many donors and friends of IMO from as far as Waterloo and even abroad.

Imam Shibly was around, a former IMO Imam now in Edmonton who emphasized the Dawa to Canadians and Moulana Faiz from UK, who emphasized educating the youths.

Imam H Slimi, present Imam, reminded us of the past and its struggles and the vision forward- youths and their activities.

President Umar Farouk was right when he said some time back: “We take it as a task upon ourselves to establish good relations with both our fellow Muslims and fellow Canadians. Both of our spiritual and administrative leadership are working for more educational and youth programs as well as the Muslim Community Development in all fields and domains. There is a lot to be done to empower the Muslim individuals especially in terms of education, social welfare and spiritual guidance. Our counseling sessions and daily and weekly programs are meant to answer the needs of the community members.”

Habeeb Alli presented a poem on IMO, recalling the fact that it’s the women who are the real backbone of this successful multi-faceted organization. See www.imooftoronto.com



ISARC fights poverty through the Interfaith powers

The power of Faith is often reengaged to that of a hidden spiritual world. How often social justice means the difference your religion can make in reducing poverty or fighting AIDS?

Interfaith Social Assistance Reform Coalition was formed a few years ago to reduce poverty in the province of Ontario. Recently a conference was held in a beautiful resort in the Northern town of Keswick. These two days deliberation was attended by many Christians, Jews, Muslims and Hindus. The organization mandates itself in collaborating as Faith leaders and make a positive, non violent, advocacy towards policy makers since 49 per cent of Canadians claim they are only a pay check or two away from poverty.

The Canadian Council of Imams is a participatory member and while Imam AbdulHai Patel was way on another anti poverty conference in Japan, Imam Habeeb Alli, secretary of the CCI attended. A wonderful presentation on the Golden Rule was presented by Paul McKenna and the continuous advocacy through attending the Deb Mathews public deliberations, media coverage and writing to the political parties.

Muslims are significantly affected by this poverty as they make up the majority of immigrants but it was also noted that many Canadians born here are also suffering and with rising cost of living definitely something has to be done to save us from poverty. Poverty breeds disbelief and heresy as much as causes misery and pity, comments the present Secretary Mr. Brice Palmer. See www.isarc.ca

Healing Presence in the Muslim Faith

Understanding what it takes to heal is not only a doctor’s job. Or for that matter your loving family members’. It takes lots of spiritual care and we are lucky in Canada that that cultural sensitivity is recognized. But Chaplains have it tough. These gentle souls tend to sick Muslims or inmates while they themselves may not be Muslims. They may be able to deal with some general issues but not the more intense religious ones. Muslim Chaplains is therefore need with 1million Muslims in Canada and growing. For now the Ontario Multi Faith Council must be commended for having almost 35 chaplains registered with them and for working with all faiths.

This year’s annual conference discussed healing and how different faiths respond to its needs. The conference was held at the Glendon College in Toronto and presenters emphasized the need to be prayerful, take medications, being patient and work with the spirit of healing at all times. Imam Habeeb Alli spoke of the rahmah or Allah’s mercy as being the source of healing and the patient actually swims in Allah’s ocean of mercy as much as the visitors and doctors must be aware of that presence. Two important points were reiterated- avoid the hallucination of evil Jinns possessing someone and hence not seeking medical attention and be cautious of the after care after being cured as hastiness is from Satan.

Among the many presenters and workshops was an official from the Chaplaincy Ontario and from Correctional Service ready to answer the many questions chaplains and their clients encounter. Of course more Qurans, prayer mats and books are always needed and hence welcome. The Canadian council of Imams is a board member OF OMC.
See www.omc.ca

Imams discuss the delicate question of polygamy in Toronto
As the opinions roared back and forth recently on the issue of one local Imam supporting the issue of polygamous marriages despite its contravention it was thought that the Canadian Council of Imams should discuss this issue. North American Muslim Foundation hosted the forum and entertained the attendees with a sumptuous dinner. Imam Shabbir Ally, TV host, debater and Ph D candidate facilitated the discussions.

While the article written by Shahryar Shaikh evoked many angered responses and the many Imams wanted a forum, the issue surround more than a defense of polygamy as declared in the Quran- the women’s rights in this issue must be seen as Canadians are very much concerned about this, the legality as per the law, the security of the family, the Quranic nuances and its interpretations. Imam AbdulHai being a former Human Rights Commissioner emphasized the need to make sure these families are financially secured and only by registering the marriages will this be possible, Dr Timothy of the York Islamic Studies Department spoke about using the Quran as the defender and not assuming Allah’s thoughts for any revelation and Shahryar Shaikh asked what will become of the extra women in the world.

By and large there is need for more forums, more research and definitely more input from lawyers and other experts. The Jamiatul Ulama made a special effort to attend and almost twenty Imams and Scholars came that beautiful evening, praying at the new Masjid Qurtaba in Scarborough, managed by NAMF.




Relay for life event Muslims play a big role.
Every year they come to light candles and make dua. These are Muslims who may be survivors of cancer, relatives and friends of such survivors who come out to support. But many are grieving the lost of their loved ones to this mysterious killer- cancer.

Millions are raised yearly for research and no doubt much has improved in terms of diagnosis, treatment and care since Terry Fox made cancer an everyday man’s concern.

For many years Nadeem Memon and Majied Ali will meet at the Islamic Foundation and discuss with cancer patients some aspect of their health, being cancer survivors themselves. They have also explored alternative medicine. For the past three years at the vigil held at the Birchmount Recreational Park Muslims would overnight with others, participate in the walk raising money, enjoy great food and concert and of course pray together and gather to listen to a talk on health. This year Moulana Habeeb spoke on Healing in Islam and dedicated his speech to a once striving Muslim activist, Zakiya, who passed away silently this year, as she succumbed to the deadly disease after a long battle.
May Allah grant her and all others a lasting place in Janna, grant cure and healing to the victims and protect us all from such a disease. May Allah grant the patience to the loved ones and guidance to the researchers. Amen. See ww.MuslimCancerSupport.ca

Hijab women fight against their discriminatory dismissal at UPS.
Not often you hear of someone picking up the fight on behalf of Hijabis. Well in Toronto it’s different. Workers Action Centre organized a powerful evening of talks, entertainment and social justice mobilization last week in Innis College, UFT.

Eight Somalian Hijabis were working at UPS, according the WAC newsletter, and they were not made permanent on the job. The reason given was their hijab although they worked at the UPS firm before. In seeking justice Workers Action Centre noted that people should not to be discriminated thanks to their choice of religion and not by gender, since hijab is a gender issue

The email invite for this program was circulated by the Faith of Life Network and thank Allah, Muslims did turn out. Uzma Shakir was master of ceremonies and she had the victim speak a swell as a notable social activist in Toronto. There was music and lots of food. The Jazz belted out by Rose from LAL, a musical group, was phenomenal- a Bengali girl born in Canada doing American blues, crying out to save Muslim women!


Interfaith Dialogue and Fundraising Dinner held fro the first time at NAMF.

Those accustomed to attending dinners will know Interfaith dialogue is not part of the menu. Maybe tongue lashing talks are. Also those attending the many NAMF programs know that while they are well organized, they can’t remember Interfaith added to the string of fundraisers for whatever causes.

This Saturday it was different. Fr. David Warren of the Scarborough Missions, a Catholic Priest fro 30 years, discussed on stage the life of Jesus and his impact on living in diverse Canada. Imam Dr. Munir El Kassem then took his turn and showed Jesus is a prophet who taught respect and like all Prophets he did not teach anything different from Islamic theology. Fr Warren showed that fighting poverty would be one the things Jesus, on whom be peace, would have definitely emphasized if he was to live in Canada. The audience asked questions and interacted respectfully.

Dr Munir elKasem went on to fundraise for the news Masjid Qurtaba which is prime property purchased by North American Muslim Foundation for 3.5 M with 100 Ks already paid, another due very soon and the remainder to be paid in 5 years.

Appeal is on going for this project that includes the relief, Islamic school and gym plus a banquet hall for any functions. The food was just great coming from MF Halal and thanks to many donors and sponsors it was success. Two local comedians, Saad Kayani and Azfar Alli performed to the happy response of the mixed audience.
See www.namf.ca

Happy 141st Birthday, Canada!

Born in the North
Amassed from your British father
Lands and peoples gathered
To fly under the Dominion

You continue to be fertile
Millions at this age and more still coming
150 nations migrated for your freedoms
May you be rich and strong far from Olympic rebukes

While fireworks and barbeque riddle your birthday bash
Many still working and some can't find any
Wrapped around my heart ribbons of red and white
Pinned unto my vest my birth land's green and black

Oh Canada
Land of widespread peace
We say Salam to your sons and daughters
Forever you be at ease.

Monday, June 16, 2008

IMO Tenth Anniversary poem of congrats

IMO WAY TO GO
IMO-INTERESTING MAGNIFICENT ORGANIZERS
THE TEARS AND SWEAT OF TEN YEARS
SYNONONYMOUS WITH GLOBAL ACTIVE BLISS
MAKES EVERY CENT WORTH A 1000 MASJIDS
WHAT THEY SAID? YOU WOULD NEVER REACH
TEN GUYS AT 1000 EACH
MONEY YOUR WIFE WISHED TO SPEND ON SEARS
BUT THANKS TO ALLAH TODAY'S CELEBRATED TEARS
HOW CAN IT NOT BE?
WHEN THE FIRST LADIES OF EVERY ATTENDEE
ROLLED UP THEIR SLEEVES
NEVER MIND THEY CALL US SOCIALESE
OPEN TO ALL, NO ONE TOO SMALL
THEY SAY IT'S SUCH COMPROMISE LEADS TO FALL
BUT ISN’T THIS THE PRIDE OF OUR FAITH, WHERE’S YOUR INSIGHT?
UNLESS YOU DON'T DIG OUR FOOD, RIGHT
SO IMO YOU HAVE LOTS MORE TO DO
FOR NOW SING AND PRAISE, LET THE WORLD KNOW
THIS IS FOR REAL NOT A SHOW
IMO, WAY TO GO!

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

ensuring the law of the land is followed is totally Islamic

Dear Editor

In your recently published article in the Star on polygamy practiced in GTA the statement of certain religious leaders within the Muslim community needs to be qualified within the context of Canadian Muslims and as per se the Canadian Council of Imams. This council has actively existed and participated in the everyday politics of Canada since 1991, providing guidance for all layers of governance, while emphasizing the importance of adhering to the religious teachings of Islam, the obligation of following the law of the land and ensuring reasonable religious accommodation as constituted in our proud Charter of Rights and Freedom.

Muslims must realize that following the Canadian Law of marriage provides the very provision Islamic Law seeks i.e. protecting women, children and husband in the event of separation and of course during marriage. This Council has repeatedly made it known that it will only perform traditional ceremonies registered and approved by the Province. It has challenged any member who seeks to do otherwise and again call upon all leaders and followers to uphold the coveted laws of Canada that are especially based upon equity and belief in God.

To the surprise of many the elements of a civil marriage are the very primary factors of Nikah/Islamic marriage- consent, witnesses, dower; however in civil ceremonies the Faith of both parties remain a private affair. In having one's marriage performed in this legally licensed fashion provides the very essence of marriage- security and happiness.
Yours truly,

Independence Day: Gratitude and Reflection

Independence Day: Gratitude and Reflection



It is with deep gratitude for the Creator I stand here to day to share my message on behalf the Muslim Community of Guyana. I am honored for this opportunity.

Independence spells freedom for many who lived in bondage and slavery- colonial or post. But Guyana could not have achieved this 42 years ago without the six races standing shoulder to shoulder, ripping those chains with only tears, blood and sweat. The Quran reminds us aptly that such diversity is humanity’s indispensable trump card.

49:13 O Humanity! We created you from a single (pair) of a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know each other (not that you may despise (each other).

But what about recognizing our value as a spiritual nation? We saw the fruits of such when the ERC engaged us in a blitz on anti-racism prior to the last election.

Today let us reflect as our own Martin Carter did: All are consumed. Therefore we are each shepherds and in the words of Muhammad, each must take responsibility of his/ her flock, making Guyana not only the only English speaking country in South America but also the only peaceful, spiritual and safe State in this hemisphere.

And God Willing, Inshallah, we can.

Thank You

Events

Canadian Council of Imams held first development seminars

Knowledge sharing and professional training are no strangers to Imams. That’s what they do. However, finding the time off to attend an Imam’s development workshop, where you are now the listener that could be a challenge.

On May 19th 2008 twenty Imams attended a half day professional training workshop hosted by the Council itself, headed by Hamid Slimi at the Bosnian Islamic Centre, downtown Toronto.

Among the presenters were lawyer Irfan Syed who dealt with Canadian Laws and common issues; Nyla Hassan spoke on the importance of communicating through appropriate self imaging; accountant Qamar Sadiq provided crucial information on taxes while Nazim Baksh explored the sorely crucial area of media interviews. The IttihaadCapital team presented on their version of investing in ethical funds in Canada.

Attendees felt this was indeed an eye-opening event and wish more workshops are planned especially in the area of social work and public speaking.

The Chair thanked everyone, and specifically the Masjid management for hosting all with a sumptuous Bosnian cuisine. More of these workshops are slated as Imams need to operate within the Canadian context and knowledge shared is never too much. The JamiatulUlama, the body of local Islamic scholars, also supported this event.


Islamic Foundation opens its doors for Toronto, again

Affording the tickets to some of Toronto’s exotic destinations could be out of reach for some. And then the phobia in entering certain sacred spaces complicates it further. Well that should no longer be, at least per year. For the last nine years this wonderful Turkish architecture at Markham and Nugget has earned a reputation of being a must stop for those venturing out on a warm Open Doors weekend.

Visitors toured the various sections of the mosques, received refreshments and literature about complex and the religion it represents. Moreso a special session in the public library accommodates the many questions Canadians may wish to settle. Educated presenters dealt alternately throughout the Saturday and Sunday with issues as simple as the meaning of the prayers to complex matters like polygamy.

This conversation has to continue among Muslims with more open doors outside Toronto Open Doors.





NAMF walkathon a small success despite the rain
Last Saturday the weather was not cooperating like most would say for this long Victoria weekend.
However, this did not deter the signed up walkers for NAMF Walkathon 2008 in aid of orphans around the world, including Guyana. The thirty odd walkers started from Scarborough Civic Centre at 10:00 am and ended up at Midland and Finch 11:30 am, doing the 6 km comfortably in the cool of the after rain morning. Many did not want to brave the weather but youths and adults alike joined to make the premiere event a success. The twenty three hundred dollars raised will go towards the orphan sponsorship program, says the Director of North American Muslim Foundation, Mr. Farouk Khan. Among the walkers was Aliya Khan, originally from Guyana and her friends of varied backgrounds. With free t-shirts, popeyes and hand bands plus happy going colleagues she says they are bound to be back next time, bigger and better. “The run was fun, compelling and inspirational”, says Aliya. “It was great to see high school students getting involved in such a great cause since we are expected to spend our Saturday mornings sleeping in! It was a great opportunity to spend time with friends and family, knowing your spreading awareness about orphan sponsorship, not only an Islamic, but World Wide crisis,” she added.

Muslims host seminar on Muslim inmates

Mothers cry. Families distressed. Imams try. Why so many youths in the prison system? And how do they receive basic spiritual care?

Mothers concerned about their sons imprisoned and unable to receive basic Muslims chaplaincy services convened at the West Mall Community Centre, Etobicoke, recently, May 1st to discuss this issue with their local MP and Muslim Leaders.

Basically the community needs to collaborate in providing preventative programs in the community, making their mosques more active. At the same time inmates desperately need qualified Muslim chaplains. The Canadian Council of Imams and the Muslim Children AID Society have committed themselves to continue this important pursuance.

Allowing the free spirit to enter Jumua

Let not the tardiness of a partner be your pain
Allow the whispers of spring to touch your hair
Let divine solace be more important than olay
So like the moth on the candle light you'll each other desire

For many have listened to old man sea
Unpouring into wine glasses memories
Many relish the dinner and candlelights
But love is a journey of commitments that turns and turns

When not in the mood don't pretend
When making amends be sincere
For with every caution to the wind
Tauba is more essential than air or a nice jacket
www.imamhabeeb.com

Absence yet present

You are so talented

You raise my hopes
with words scented of lovely things
With your heart like carnation

You have indulged the aura
beyond understanding

Why make yourself tired
At the feet of longing

When you can sit by the river bankof fulfillment
And be carried on the palaquin of butterflies and birds
conversing, carressing
the frog questions the rain
Why do you keep away
The rain absorbed in her misty thoughts
Replied for with union
the magic may be unbelievable.

Monday, May 5, 2008

Green Muslims

Islamic Foundation receives award for joining the greening spaces program thanks to the youths
I drive by these days seeing David Suzuki lying under a bus seat with a huge glue-gun and an even huger smile and I say ‘what a guy!’ Well who isn’t inspired by this father of the greenies? Last Saturday, April 12th 2008, I was even more inspired and so over 150 others at the U of T by the eloquent, erudite and committed Fr. Giorgio Di Ciccco as he cared for these attentive flowers in his garden of Ecology of the Heart, during his opening key note speech.

Hosted by Faith and the Common Good environmental organization, this one day "Greening Sacred Spaces Forum" afforded, easily, the various faith leaders and concerned citizens, from both urban and rural GTA, great motivation and insight to make their places of worship energy efficient and in turn for them to join the movement of saving our God-given planet.

Fr. Di Cicco, author of twenty odd books, including Municipal Mind, reminded the attendees that we are not independent of each other but dependent and therefore it's our loving duty to save the earth.
Among the workshops offered were: how to get funding for greening one's holy sanctuary, understanding the concept of spirituality in the eco-movement, renewable energy, organic gardening, sealing old roofs, green interior decor, etc
No doubt our duty to saving this planet goes way beyond walking to work and eating organic. It rather includes important questions about carbon emissions and globalization, legislation and education. But with single drop after drop an ocean is built and as we say in Guyana “one-one duty ah build dam”- it takes one brick at a time to construct a highway.
As Dr Ted Reeve, Director for this non profit organization aptly puts it: “To engage in the radical discipline of seeing deep beauty in changing seasons, the love in people’s faces, each interdependent element of creation, is to walk differently in the world. I find this profoundly challenging as I rush from one To Do, to the next. Yet, when I remember to focus on beauty my attitude shifts and I engage the world in a more loving way.”
Among the places of worship recognized for doing something positive about greening their space was the United Church of Parkdale and Islamic Foundation, Toronto.

As Muslims we are already chosen to help for Allah called humans Khalifa- one who succeeds and inherits and one who ensures that the heirloom remains safe and intact in order to pass it to the next in line.

Greening sacred spaces

Youth Tarbiya Workshops struggles to help
On Saturday, April 12th, youths and parents gathered again at the Salahuddin Mosque’s gym to enjoy a workshop, basketball and good food.

Auliya AbdRahman and Shirene Khan took up this initiative in January 2008 and have been pounding at it alone but increased vigor. Since the Aqsa Pervez trajedy a few workshops were done including the Young Muslims doing one in Sauga in January, one on sexuality in Waterloo Masjid in March and the opening of 1-866-NASEEHA hotline to help youths in trouble.
This workshop series is monthly and cost a minimal $10.00, attended mostly by public school students and accompanied by their concerned parents on a Saturday evening. The last program had Ibrahim Hindy talking about friends and their influence. This time Abu Shahada reminded the kids about the evil of drugs and Shaikh Habeeb inspired them on stopping bullyism- helping the bullied and bully.

Parents continue to be alarmed about the safety of their children as they spend most of their lives in public domains that are continuously challenged morally and security-wise. We have a responsibility to not only feed, clothe and shelter them but to educate and spiritualize them with proper protections and self dignity- says Shireen the main architect and a single mother herself. How good has this been? Mohamed Patel believes this is real “cool” as you learn and have fun in safe place with lots of good food! Next time is pizza!

Youths vying in speech

Amazing speeches and empowered youths- another NAMF success story


On Saturday, April 5th, 2008, the seventh annual NAMF speech competition and Fundraising dinner was held. It was a resounding success! The topic this year was: 'Is the media the primary cause of youth violence in Canadian society?' Students were invited from more than 100 public and private schools across the GTA.
While the preliminary did not happen due to insufficient applicants, the finals saw nine enthusiastic speakers vying for the three top prizes: laptops, Psps and Mp3 players respectively. The judges described the competition as “tight”, with each participant doing their very best to win one of the popular prizes. The presentation showed individuality, sincerity, careful research, and distinct points of view. All were well delivered.
The caliber of presentations was excellent and every speaker deserved to win. The judges were Mr. Nadeem Memon, a PhD candidate at OISIE/UFT, who teaches at Centennial College; Mr. Omar Zia, who holds a Masters in Education and teaches in the Peel District School System and Mr. Mark Persaud a lawyer and community leader.
In the primary category (grades 6 to 8) the first prize went to Daniya Muhammadi. Rehan Khan topped the secondary school category. In attendance was the honorable Minister of Labor of Ontario, Mr. Brad Duguid. He applauded the efforts of the ‘nervously seated’ students and emphasized the value of competitive challenges, like this one, as it marks a bright future for Canadians, an issue he is dearly committed to.
Pride was evident on the faces of many parents and supporters. At the intermission NAMF Islamic Academy presented a wonderful choral recitation.
Funds raised at the dinner will go towards NAMF’s new building. Special thanks to all the donors and our generous sponsors Alimas Roti, Deen Pharmacy and Scouts Canada.
An educator attending with her family commented: ‘NAMF must be commended for providing this valuable educational opportunity for youths. Events like this develop communication skills in young people and give them an opportunity to express themselves freely. This goes beyond ordinary classroom instruction and actively involves students in creating a better world.’

Brother Ashraf from IMO, a former popular venue of this event, said: We definitely need to encourage our young ones as Ilm is power and the vibrancy to deliver it is a skill; indeed events like this will nurture deliverance and will be of great encouragement for our young ones and greatest of pleasure for parents!

Toronto Muslim science

Toronto’s First Muslim Science Centre opens to the public.

Last Sunday, April 6th 2008, I took my kids to attend an intriguing workshop on purifying water in our world that is slowly depleting its bare 1% drinking water.

These were volunteers from Engineers without Borders demonstrating their skills to young children and parents sat in. These UFT students are traveling around the country ensuring children understand the issues other poorer children are faced with in acquiring technology to purify their mostly unfiltered water and many times contaminated. Fatiha partnered with these young volunteers to provide this workshop to the Muslim community free of charge.

Having a unique alternative to an indigestion of spiritually impoverished media was Fatiha's Foundation founding three directors concern in 2004. This worry became the brainchild of the now daily functioning Muslim Science Centre in the vicinity of Islamic Foundation, Toronto.
For a real minimum fee children can play with intricate science games, build new things, paint and play games after school and weekends. The challenge is the get parents on board as the community is either accustomed to leaving their kids unsupervised after school in front the 'box' or believe spending their evenings at the maktab without play is the only way out. This centre affords a rounded leisure time- education, play and Islam.

With workshops such as poetry, science and seera slated it is bound to be a success.
To open the door to traditional, inclusive and affordable education system in North America is the http://www.fatiha.ca/ccc mission statement, what about yours?

Guyanese Muslim business woman shortlisted for awards

If you are a regular patron of the Guyana Festival then rest assured you have seen her. For over fifteen years this proud Guyanese business woman has decorated the corridors of Guyanese culture in Toronto with her signature Twins Products. But is Razia Khan all about “West Indian” business?

Visible in every fundraising dinner, cultural event, interfaith prayer, business meeting and religious function Razia has raised the hopes of Guyanese Diaspora that “a successful mother, entrepreneur and social activist” can all be served in the same plate.

Having arrived in Canada in 1979, she worked in the Financial Industry for over 12 years, before starting her own business. During that trying period she also found time to successfully complete her Business Studies at Seneca College.

Being a mother of one loving son, who demands more of her attention than usual, and having taken care of others during her early years in Canada, Razia remained steadfast to her business ideals and community involvement.

I think she makes an excellent choice, among the many other successful Guyanese business women in Toronto, in being awarded the Guyana 2008 Award and Mrs. Khan’s contribution, both morally and financially, bear witness to this.

The three factors that make a person great- self sacrifice, moral excellence and being a true role model are found easily within this charismatic daughter of Guyana. Many times people are successful in their newly adopted home but do not return to their home country. Razia has repeatedly returned to Guyana, despite the challenges, to share her prosperity and has been an enormous pillar of support for many charitable causes, both religious and humanitarian in nature.

Wealth and success many times engage the recipient in heady immoral indulgences, making little room for self dignity. With the attested character of Razia among her peers and competitors alike, she has stood tall in her field- building a business of ‘pharmaceuticals produced in Guyana’. She has not only kept it original, but inasmuch as lived a healthy spiritual life, clean as running water. Recently, she was applauded in the mosque for her personal commitment over the years both financially and morally. The associates at Three Rivers Foundation and CIOG have equally the same compliments and so too her many customers and co-workers.

Sparkling always in attire and radiant in countenance, this leader among Guyanese business women in North America has inspired many, parents and children alike, to be that caring mother, astute entrepreneur and steadfast spiritualist, no matter how tough the tide gets and lonely the road turns. A child remarked fondly when asked about ‘Auntie Razi’: “She makes me feel special every time I’m with her. I think I want to be corporate Razia when I grow up!”

Bite that halal Nandos in Vaughn

Nandos chicken is the bite you can’t resist. Habeeb Alli

Out with the family or just hanging out with friends but you really want a yummy quick bite yet it must be in an exquisite setting and it has to be halal. Well look no further. Nandos is here to your rescue. Where? Not a better joint than buzzing high end Vaughan? Nandos is originally a marriage of Portuguese and South African recipes and specifically a rich entertainment of spicy grilled chicken marinated with the Cape's best ingredients and done by some Toronto's super chefs. A walk into this newly established chicken joint transforms you into a hype world of aroma, art, ambience and cozy wooden furniture that is neither Victorian nor African. It's modern and relaxing yet celebrates culture and youth in an intricate mix of Nando's spices and Nando's halal right cut pieces. Be it a family combo or a single bite, be it catering for the office lunch or a fundraising dinner Nabeel, Naeem and Mohmmad have it all figured out at unbeatable prices. I know you will say well chicken is chicken and halal fast foods are aplenty elsewhere but not this type, Bro! As for Halal the company has a certificate and is willing to give you the free grand tour, any time! Talk about juicy Flame Grilled Chicken, Kebabs, Wings & Sandwiches marinated in their slow over night process of spices and the smiles of great hospitality just at the intersection of Highway 7 and Weston, 7887 Weston Road. Talking is not eating! www.nandoschicken.com 905 850 9599

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Travelling to Guyana and the Caribbean

Guyana and the Dawa: Struggling between Sunna and Commonsense

It has been awhile. But with absence the new become richer and the old looks matured. With the lapse of time wisdom grows upon you and life seems be that still picture just brought out of the attic. Yet for many it’s not the sea and the winds mating. It’s not wisdom and growth dawning upon a voyager. The seasons seem to stop breathing. Frozen in the oasis of ancient myths and archaic thoughts, you can’t help but see the contrast of cows still wandering on the road and the massive Floridian style houses competing for the passersby.

And the question is: has the Dawa improved in Guyana? Apart from the struggles of daily survival are people moving on? Or do the issues of what is Sunna and what is acceptable Islamically still haunting new comers and old hardened workers?

Multimedia
Thanks Guyana. I have bowed to your humble legacy and waned in front of the stalwarts who remained steadfast on the Dawa despite the odds. I saw the magical technological superlative underscore a wonderful Third World achievement, rarely seen in North America- the Zamals TV presentation rallying another year without fail. Vying for quality time and qualitative production these series are the wonder-struck of CNN’s and BBC’s enviers. From the humble undertakings, when equipments were transported to roadsides and rickety mosques across the country, in order to bring a multi media dimension to the Dawa, to a day people of all walks of lives enjoy in their living rooms food for thought and menu for the soul without a cent. Of course nothing is for free and it’s time those mosques and loud Muslims in Guyana donate towards a striving neutral and well managed Multi Media fund. Harun Yahya is one man who has excelled in this field and with many trying to reach others in their domain there is no such a means readily available and better equipped than the Zamals team- The producers of this newsletter for the past ten years, just for your information. So, Hats off to common sense presenting Sunna in its beatific and magical mind blowing angle.

Islamic Schools
I saw the Islamic schools and became even more humbled as students continue to sacrifice-whether residential or day school- in the way reminiscent of Sahaba. Except the People of the Past did not have to measure quality and discipline. They were the yardstick by which all are measured. Struggling for funds, the right type of teachers will never be sought. Islamic education is private enterprise except it may have the community’s backing and a not for profit mandate. Vying for these teaching positions are well paying private institutions mission as much as the foreign lure aren’t hidden factors. Why not become student friendly by investing in qualified teachers? Why it has to be the management and their proclivities? Schools and Educational systems aren’t about us who have graduated and now hold the torch, despite how much unwanted or ill equipped for it. The Prophet, on whom be peace, when he prayed for the wellness and prosperity of the teachers of goodness he verily included Islamic and academic studies, as much as he included those with good manners and intentions and those who are just there for the pay. In a time when religion doesn’t carry prestige and pay no one can cast aspersions on the sincerity of any- after all in Miskatul Masaabih we are told not question the sincerity of the Believers.


I saw the fruits of sacrifice and financial freedom in Trinidad. Not only schools are blossoming but relief work has now entered the domain, thanks to people like Zainol Ali who has been a dear friend of Guyana since the 60’s. Now graduates are not always able to find a job, well paid in an institution or marry into a wealthy family. Shouldn’t graduates of Islam, knowing what donations were invested into their education, develop opportunities in the other fields and small town places? Where are the scholars who are writing, making media presentations, pursuing relief work, teaching adults, seeking to Khutba in the villages, developing children maktab in areas that are new, preparing students to do Dawa, etc.? Where are the Imams during interfaith dialogues and Islamophobic onslaughts? Where are those who attend the sick and socialize with the ordinary? Those who will attend the functions of the Muslims and not scorn their halal food and shun their women?

Islamic Finance
I saw in Barbados the sweetness of a now blossoming department of Islam- Islamic finance. The thirst to know and develop alternative systems in the interest based economies that are interest free and Sharia compliant has appeared in Trinidad credit unions years ago. Now Barbados, that wealth of off shore banking, seeks to implement a package that caters for a generation who wants to own a house but without the Quranic banned mortgages. 2:275 Those who devour usury will not stand except as stand one whom the Evil one by his touch Hath driven to madness. That is because they say: "Trade is like usury," but Allah hath permitted trade and forbidden usury.
Thank Allah this concept is what we have championed in Canada for the last four years and its now bearing fruits with thousands wanting interest free loans. Guyana has had this conversation since in the 8o’s and it’s time some independent business people see the light in this 1 trillion-dollar-growing industry and create also an independent Sharia board with help from outside.

Tolerance
I can’t understand how a country blessed with resources beyond gold and bauxite still cannot tolerate each other. Racial discrimination is not a Guyanese heritage. We have always lived, married, mixed and enjoyed six races and four religions. As one brother Omar said to me at the now rebuilding Queenstown Masjid site: even after any tension we still jump in the same mini bus and enjoy the ride! Well I have always said that our interfaith and inter ethnic relations have not been a product of lectures and intellectual exchanges but a destiny that brought us together through colonialism and by expediency we have evolved this social paradigm to become the pride of the world.

What makes it worse is when Muslims fight. Difference of opinion is well and good. The Prophet, on whom be peace, calls differing on points a matter of mercy and fighting down each other to the extent that some are in court, some don’t speak to each other or give salaams and worse yet others accuse each other. Tears and more tears can only be the response to such pathetic situation. Dua is the night, Dua anytime but with a bleeding heart and pleading tongue may be our last resort. Dua is indeed the crux of the matter for the Believers.

It’s haraam not to speak to your brother for more than three days. As leaders and Muslims we have to be qudwa- models of charisma and understanding. Children imitate their parents 70% of the time- so how about their teachers and Imams whose job is to be imitated and followed? 25:74 And those who pray, "Our Lord! Grant unto us wives and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous."

Fatwa slinging
I met with the brothers going out in Jamat. It’s such a sweet experience, nostalgic and life altering. With years in the movement, you just can’t escape the thrills and pitfalls when seeking spiritual things. A nice advice would be ‘not to have many friends’. When the Prophet of Allah signaled this important sociological fundamental he was neither Voltaire nor Ibn Khaldun. He just knew that friends shape your religious beliefs and determine your religiosity, and the more you have the more confused you can become. These days it so easy for every one to load their fatwa’s, experiences and personal touch of spirituality on any willing listener, that the contradictions of religion becomes like daylight in that person’s life. Can you imagine someone not knowing the difference between halal and haraam, Sunna and jaiz yet they pronounce themselves mothers of the believers, too quick to dish out judgments instead of well-intentioned advices? I always remember my teacher Abul Hassan Nadvi saying only if your advise was sought for, was sincere and of course based upon sound Islamic evidences will it have an effect on anyone.

Aisha radiallahu anha had a doll and as such having a doll, with eyes or not, has always been an accepted Islamic practice. Having access to one’s family is a human right so common sense and Sunna aught to be mates. I saw the smiles of young girls turned adults that only yesterday the mysteries of love and womanhood were laughed at like any Hanna Montana show. Now they have taken on the turn of stewardship. I pray, that with support and knowledge, with taqwa and Dawa they too will realize the responsibility of Islam and family is more than imitation of some scholars of a certain country alien to Guyana’s context. One of the rules of fatwa is the local Ulama must be asked before the question is asked abroad. When Muaaz, ra, was sent as an emissary and teacher to the Yemenites he was reminded that he must rule by the Quran, then the Sunna and then by his opinion based upon his knowledge of the aforementioned two principles. Sound judgment based upon one’s solid information in the Sharia and within the context is so important. It’s called rai or ijtihad and it’s like grounded common sense out of a host of possible nonsensical allusions on any subject. But where are those accessible scholars? A hotline hosted by a body of Ulama would do Guyana great justice as a hotline to help distressed people is always a lifeline. 16:43 And before thee also the apostles We sent were but men, to whom We granted inspiration: if ye realize this not, ask of those who possess the Message.

Students care
Prices rising. Insecurity much evident in the early close ups and vigilant bar-ups. But with the power of Iman and the power of good neighborly actions anything of fear becomes phobia. The hospitality of a nation marks the prosperity of its people. Wherever one goes the culture of generosity highlights our people like a shadow of pious angels. Why not explore this sense of community and kindness not for personal glory and lifetime enrichment but for taking care of students in poverty? By now each student should have been entrusted with a family to take care of their meals, computer needs, medical help and financial assistance. Omar bin Khatttab used to exchange days with his partner in order to learn Islamic knowledge. And the Ashab Suffa were residential students, whose needs were met from the families of Madina. The immigrants of Mecca were paired with the helpers of Medina- the haves and have nots in Guyana can easily bridge this gap with partnering social system.

At least this will create camaraderie of family and society into the lives of boys and now girls who are estranged from these important aspects of life while stowed away in seminary. Don’t get me wrong. Living in the environment of Deen is important. We are the products of the environment. Look at the beautiful sunshine weather of Guyana and you see smiles. So I know about the dynamics of a good, strong environment but I also know of the detriments of not being to live with the opposite sex in a self responsible way and having to find yourself after being cut off from family and friends. There is nothing wrong in taking leads from Scholars. But this is no Islamic tradition to always strike up a conversation or end it for that matter with what ‘my Shaikh says’.

All are consumed
Guyana has always been the seat of Islam, knowledge and common sense. Our ancestors were Muslims and strong ones for that matter. They did not come yesterday from India and arrived the other day from Saudi Arabia but have blessed our lands since before the arrival of the black slaves. Yes they came before Columbus- to quote one of the sons of Guyana- Dr Van Sertima, the Oxford Anthropologist. While the see-saw of traditional understanding Islam and modern interpretations will continue to sway and while the pendulum of who will control the institutions and whose students are more learnt will continue to swing, let us not loose focus on the road of a progressive Dawa- that all are consumed, all must be loved and respected and all must be paid their due as every morsel food donated, every drop of blood spilled and every tear shed will be counted like mountains on the Day of Judgment. 99:7 Then shall anyone who has done an atom's weight of good, see it!

I saw the miracle of life- the cycle of karma. What you sow is what you reap. 18:30 As to those who believe and work righteousness, verily We shall not suffer to perish the reward of any who do a (single) righteous deed. The Berbice DarulUloom and Secondary School building was named Khalid Complex- my insistence as a mark of remembrance for the great sacrifice brother Khalid Khan has made for Islam in Guyana and a recollection for his tragic yet spiritual death on his way to build Lethem Masjid sis years ago. I saw Khalid’s’ two children, now grown, learnt and married teaching in this same institution. The fruits of his labour and the place where those fruits are recognized have married into the meaningfulness of whatever you give back Allah will surely make it worthwhile. 6:160 He that doeth good shall have ten times as much to his credit: He that doeth evil shall only be recompensed according to his evil: no wrong shall be done unto (any of) them.

Salam Alaikum
So keep running my sisters and brothers like the rapids of Kaieteur, you will make it and like the works of many others of whom I have not mentioned and but for whose works and time I have great respect and love for- with the foundations of love and less figure pointing the Dawa in Guyana will fall from struggling and become the blossom of Allah’s divine scheme.

Guyanese Muslims rasie funds for wells in Kenya in Ottawa

Who comes out for a dinner and fundraiser on a Sunday night? And better yet in still-melting-snow-decorated Ottawa? Well lots of good hearted people do and last night, April 13th, at the Host Indian Cuisine Restaurant almost 150 gathered from among varied backgrounds to listen the inspirations of Prophet Muhammad from the vibrant and erudite Imam Dr. Zijad Deklic, who turned out to be a great singer and effective fundraiser among other things he does at the Canadian Islamic Congress.

Decked in their studded camaraderie of sorts and held by the aura of family bonds and country these Ottawa citizens showed their commitment to community and faith as they dined and listened, socialized and smiled at the various presentations and singing.

The Guyanese-Caribbean Muslim Association did it again, an annual feat in remembering the Holy Prophet and donating towards the Wells of Hope in Kenya through the North American Muslim Foundation. Habeeb Alli explained during the fundraising that these four wells will add to the already thirty to enable suffering Muslims in Gharissa, Kenya. One well, at $1500.00, provides for almost 2000 in a village along with their crops and animals besides the wells provide wudu water for the host mosque.

The silent auction also added value to this event held for almost twenty years annually and as the CCMA President Shireen Khan rightly said: "It's is part of our mandate to help others and the Guyanese Muslim community is often singled out for this, however, we are grateful to everyone who attended and contributed as that is what makes us distinguished- we embrace people as people and that is the crux of Faith."

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Love for Rasollulah

How sweet!
The Arabian breeze
Making fragrant my Maple Spring
With lovely salutations, He warms a cold heart

Longing for Him
A place in Medina's dusty streets
Where bedoins and kings
Fed from his palm of Divine recipes

Oh Full moon on a dark continent
Oh Garden of wisdom in a crazy world
Whence do you return us your embrace of peace
in this abyss of hate
Kiss our souls again pleasantly with your fatherly Prophetood!

Sallalahu Alaihi Wassalam

Three religions celebrating, One weekend- what a lesson!

The divine convergence of Guyana's three major religions over a long weekend, among other things, reminds us that the consonance of the moon echoes a Divine call to the people of Guyana to be truly that one-nation-one-destiny child.

With this Good Friday being Jumauh, it's always Good for Muslims, and as a matter of a fact every Friday. But with the historic Youman Nabi falling on Good Friday, this year, adds another element of hope, as the advent of Muhammad did some fourteen centuries ago. With Phagwah being celebrated on Monday, the very day of Easter, an event that is associated deeply to our Beloved Prophet Esa, there holds the possibility that while religions are meant to be paths not necessarily parallel and neither crossroads, in this momentary convergence, even for once, while our Nation of One People is still bleeding from the racio-political inhumanity of many massacres, this long holiday offers the balm of healing. In unity, as in marriage; in harmony, as in intimacy, souls get a chance to transcend all chaos of daily squabbles and see themselves as the atma of forgiveness, the logos of mercy and the ruh of brotherhood.

Given our almost unexceptional mixture of race, religion and class in every Guyanese household, we are by duty bound, as sons and daughters of a single Abrahamic and Adamic family. Where by virtue of an ancestral passion, that goes beyond Timbuktu and Calcutta, We are to be the ambassadors of love and peace, in every global boardroom, in every virtual chatroom, and of course in every classroom of human living.

While, as customary as it is, as far as memory allows, neighbours share sweets during these closely held celebrations, and now over one weekend, let's cook those sweets with the tears of thankfulness and the prayers of healing. That when given, it's the gift of magnamity and justice that are really shared and when consumed it's again the food of affection and the meal of non discrimination that is partaken.

As Muhammad is remembered, let his legacy of humility, as Gandhi admitted, behold our hearts; as Jesus is reminisced let the character of forgiveness surmount as the Rumi ushered him. As Holi is celebrated let the lesson of courage be heaped as Mother Theresa reminded us years ago in impoverished Calcutta.

The Quran 33:21 encompassingly states: You have indeed in the Messenger of Allah a beautiful pattern (of conduct) for any one whose hope is in Allah and the Final Day, and who engages much in the Praise of Allah.

Happy Easter, Phagwah and Youman Nabi!

Monday, February 4, 2008

Stop Guyana from bleeding.

The pain and anguish still reek havoc within my heart and the heart of every sane human being who has seen the pornography of violence splashed across the land, of the gruesome murder of these innocent families, fast asleep in their secure wicker homes, in the backlands of Lusignan just a week ago.

The cost of life is priceless. Yet people who want their agenda at the expense of others often seek to pay with lives of those who have nothing to do with the deal and least of the crime. This habit has to stop. Men and women of today are asking for change everywhere.

The poor want change: away from being the pawn in every gambling criminal’s eyes. The unprotected are demanding, as in the case of the knee jerk protests that they will no longer sit and remain complacent in the game of votes. The religious are shouting that they will no longer be the silent leader of an oppressed flock. Even those with criminal and inhumane records are hinting signs they want change- they too want to throw in their towel and make it even. But with years and many players at this roulette of life it’s more complicated than any “street justice” movie.

But nothing is easy no matter how much we would like it to be. It takes hard work and lots of tears to construct nations. It takes even more pain and blood to bring forth babies. The ambition that these tiny bundles of joy will grow into tall men and women of success recompenses for every labor pain. When the life of these sweet angels is snuffed, when the golden horizons of unfinished men and women are painted with blood, instead of flowers, we know that it has to take greater mettle of faith and stronger sense of bravery to stem the tides of evil. Healing and protection demand a nation on their knees, with fasting stomachs and prayerful hearts.
Prayers are powerful. We believe they are the key to change. Yet here we have to have the working plan of Moses; we will march to the Red Sea. We will do as we did before a few years ago where all the religious people joined with the people fighting racism and together campaigned in every village and many gathering the lofty principles of unity and respect. Again my Brethren at the IRO and ERC!

“We must learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools”, says Martin Luther King Jr. This is the time of crisis and again concerned members should have a chance to say their two cents as much as every possible solution must not be ruled out.

This is a God given land for every Guyanese. It must not be taken away by any. Those who are safe faraway have chosen their safety at a price. Those who remain are the true patriots of self-esteem. While we pray for the safety of every man and woman in uniform, while we close every door and window with stronger iron bars and more equipped vigilantes and while we beg every citizen to respect their leader, one thing we have to never forget- let not the prayers of the weak become the unfortunate lot of the wrongdoers.

Too late then shall be the cry!
Yours truly,
Habeeb

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

The Prophet’s Hijra and Modern Migration: Are they any different?

The Prophet’s Hijra and Modern Migration: Are they any different?

With the Islamic New Years 1429 tipping the conventional New Years 2008 by few days, is it any wonder that many are tipping over when greeting Happy New Years. At least Chinese New Years is a huge family affair, big box stocking season and school curriculum item without a wink or cringe. The normalizing of this discourse is what’s sought. That new years may not be the Oscars for the dull-minded religionist but it was a celebration for the Final Messenger of Islam, blushing at the singing Medinan girls, welcoming him and Abu Bakr into his new homeland. Greeting and sharing food marked in His inaugural arrival speech. By virtue of life-altering-experience, Umar, the Second Caliph, decided to initiate the Islamic Calendar from 622 AD i.e. the year of the Hijra.

Hospitality

The Hijra of the Prophet some 1400 years ago, from Mecca to Medina, was definitely a scene of fear and escape but was it without great stories of warm hospitality? The Medinese withstood the Arabian midday heat for days anxiously awaiting their guests. Adopting anew home land cuts across all cultures like a fabric continuously woven over centuries by every earth-lived traveler, making a globally patterned shawl that’s the Holy Grail of Migration.

Maybe at the end of both journeys is the hope that good must emerge and life will not always be an unending spiral of want and fear. That somehow Providence will smile at the rainbow of ‘one’s migration plans’ and the ‘residence’ oasis will be bigger than the Sahara and brighter than the Promised land.

Fear

The Hijra was undertaken by Prophet Muhammad voluntarily, as the people of Medina actually visited him earlier and invited him to stay permanently in Medina. Unlike economic immigrants, who sought their personal safety and the betterment of themselves their loves ones, here the Prophet is undertaking a journey that would not only change the landscape of his entire nation but the horizon of his entire future adherents. Migrating to Medina would pave the way for a future safe-city for his Faith and the refugees living in Abyssinia will find a permanent home in the company of their Beloved Prophet. Migrating under the severest threat of life- the Quraish had already assigned the assassins to promptly arrive midnight with drawn swords- the Hijra was in a sense changing the worse into better. It’s like adding sugar when given lemons. Had he continued under such stressful conditions in the valley of death- 100 camels were already on the flyer for his head and the nomadic tribesmen didn’t need any more an adrenaline rush to saddle up- not only his family but the key to salvation would have been compromised forever.

Social capital

Countries that open their hearts for immigrants role play Negus-the-kindhearted-Christian-leader of Africa who hosted the first Muslim immigrants from Mecca. Such nations also deputize the charming Ansars of Medina. Despite their weaker economic circumstances, having been the underdog tribes working at the date farms of Yathrib, these brothers and sisters in Faith announced innocently to the “newcomer’ strangers that whoever wants to share half of the Ansar’s property, home, family and wealth are welcome. Now that’s social capital! A man was prepared to divorce one of his wives so his new buddy may marry her; how thoughtful for one who lived in a hot country?! Getting a pin number for social brotherhood, the Prophet paired an immigrant from Mecca with a host from Medina. Saad joined Abdurrahman in a kind of sorority that lodged them into a ‘business mentorship program’. Soon Abdurrahman was excelling in profits at no envy of his “host professor:”

Community

Sometimes the impersonal access to financial credits steal the “accustomed” humanity during immigrants’ maiden years and while more love is in eating together, paying one’s bills is the safest and fairest way to build a civilization. The Prophet ensured all his debts were paid before leaving Mecca, he insisted on paying Abu Bakr for the arranged camel-ride and upon arriving in Medina he immediately paid the orphans whose land he purchased for the central mosque. Getting immediate credit is a challenge for most who migrate but when someone has personal credibility waking up anywhere is a piece of cake.

This newly built mosque, through volunteerism and donation, became the headquarters of the minority Muslim community, with its adjoining quarters being the Prophet’s living quarters. When it was safe he later sent for his families who remained in Mecca. In a way the subtle human tendency to ‘locate a home’ in their ‘national’ neighborhood and more likely where the mosque sits isn’t a unique modern settlement pattern. It seems the community builds the mosque and the mosque attracts the wider community.

Faith

On the precipice of fear, lying low in the cave of Thaur, Abu Bakr and the Prophet are edged by the marauding voices of a blood thirsty Quraish gang, let loose on the desert tracts of Arabia. They want the camels and they want it at any cost. Never mind Muhammad is from the prestigious Hashemite clan or he is still the Al-Amin or trustworthy friend of all. As the patrolling voices became louder and even their sandals suddenly stared the two lone servants of God, below Abu Bakr momentarily buckled to human conditions. The usual butterfly stomach at most airport counters! So he shared this with His Beloved Friend- Yaa Rasullullah if they should only peep we are finished! But the Prophet was far from hanging on the precipice of fear, he was lodged on the foundation of Faith. He retorted: “What’s your thought Abu Bakr about two, the third is Allah?”!

Destination

Sometimes the journey is more important that the destination: the thrills, the learning, the scenes and the networks are just as amazing as hitting the finish line.
The Prophet’s Hijra was eventful, e.g. he met an old woman whose lean goat he miraculously milked. Almost caught, the pursuing Bedouin was swallowed by quick-sand. A poem is heard in Mecca about both travelers’ safety. And so much more history authentically chronicles. Is yours documented? For each one has a unique odyssey covered not only one person biding good bye or one nation allowing you in, but enriched with tomes of tears and laughter.

At the end every journey must come to an end and even life’s journey is no exception. The Prophet may have epitomized this when he said that Hijra is no longer a Fard or religious mandate. However, continuously wishing for betterment of Faith and struggling to ensure Faith is safe will always be an obligation. So when people say the answer is Hijra ask them to where? And when people cry how much they wish they can live in Hajj forever or stay in Jamaat or conferences eternally, ask them would they do it if they have to work there and do their religious duties too?

“The true immigrant is one who eschews what is forbidden for Hijra literally means to leave behind.”

It seems as if the Hijra and modern migration are timelines apart, and for sure not uncommon in principles yet individually inspiring.